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Generalists Are Poor, Specialists Are Rich - Not Anymore!
I came across this quote recently, and as a generalist who supports other generalists to become financially free, you can imagine how it stopped me in my tracks!
"Generalists are poor, specialists are rich. The family MD gets by while the surgeon is wealthy."
It’s a little phrase, but in my experience, even though it's a far-fetched myth, it can make any generalist feel bad.
For a long time, I felt out of place, juggling multiple interests and thriving in diverse areas rather than focusing on just one thing. People often told me I needed to specialize, that I started so many things, but hardly ever finished anything. But the more I lived, the more I realized that being a generalist is my biggest strength. My curiosity and wide skill set didn’t just fit into a single box - they built bridges between them.
And here’s the thing, the rapid growth of Tech and AI is making space for talents like ours. Renaissance people - those who see connections others miss - are leading innovation. We adapt quickly, think more creatively, and offer insights specialists may overlook. We’re no longer “jack of all trades, master of none”; we’re the missing piece that drives change.
Being a generalist means adopting powerful AI tools much faster than anyone else, amplifying our already impressive versatility and problem-solving skills. Click here to read more about my current favorites and how I use them:
ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude: These LLMs provide instant insights and help me adapt to emerging trends. I love the new OpenAI Agent for research and lists, Gemini for document summaries, picture generation, and emails, and Claude for deep research.
Jasper.ai: Streamline content creation with AI-powered efficiency. Their recent updates make them my go-to for anything content-related.
Motionapp.com: Uses AI to optimize your schedule for project management. Efficient, even though - fair warning - sometimes a bit too rigid for a generalist like me.
Runwayml.com: Revolutionizes creative work with generative AI.
Adzviser.com: Embraces AI technology to revolutionize digital advertising, empowering businesses to craft more effective ad campaigns, target the right audiences, and maximize ROI.
Gemini.com Gems: An AI cross-functional team that empowers you to achieve more than you thought possible.
HeyGen.com: Redefines storytelling with AI-generated videos, enabling users to create engaging, high-quality content effortlessly.
ElevenLabs.io: Transforms the way we interact with audio through advanced AI-driven voice technology, giving creators the tools to generate realistic, dynamic voiceovers and push the boundaries of audio storytelling.
NotebookLM.google: I love the custom podcasts and summaries I can create from information and knowledge I provide, making information more accessible and digestible for on-the-go learners.
n8n.io: My new passion, an open-source automation platform that puts the power back in your hands. With n8n, you’re not just automating tasks - you’re building a powerful AI agentic workflow that reflects your vision, your ideas, and your unique needs.
Lovable.dev: THE vibe coding app that I use to build coachmila.ai. Talking about my new AI coach, try it out here: coachmila.ai/free-ai-life-coach-mila
It’s not just about the technology - it’s about the courage to take that first step in embodying your creative generalist nature, trusting your instincts, and believing in the value you bring to the table.
Every challenge is an opportunity to grow, to innovate, and to push boundaries. Remember, you have what it takes to create something extraordinary - so start now, and see where your unique talents and interests can take you.
Let's redefine what it means to be a generalist - and why the world desperately needs us.
Here’s to owning your beautiful mix of skills,
Murielle
Featured image representing a diverse group of creative generalists, generated using AI by Google Gemini.
Are You Ready to Thrive as a Creative Generalist?
Imagine what you could achieve if you embraced the power of your many skills, unique perspective, and the potential of AI. The world is waiting for the ideas only you can bring to life - now with the support of innovative technology.
Whether you're navigating a complex challenge or striving to realize your next big vision, having the right partner can make all the difference. That's where I come in - I specialize in helping multi-passionate individuals like you turn their talents and many interests into superpowers.
Job Envy: The Creative Generalist's Struggle and How to Turn It into Your Biggest Advantage
As a multi-passionate, creative individual, have you ever found yourself scrolling through LinkedIn, pausing on a "perfect" job title for a specialist, and feeling a pang (or two or three) of envy? You see someone thriving in a singular, focused role – perhaps a "Senior AI Developer" or an award-winning "Cupcake Master" – and for a fleeting moment, you think, "That's it! That's what I should be doing!" This phenomenon, known as "job envy," is, unfortunately, a common experience for creative generalists.
We live in a world that largely expects us to choose one thing and become experts in it. Growing up, I realised early that this wasn't going to work for me. Creative generalists, also known as multi-passionate creatives, polymaths, or multipotentialites, are wired differently; we need to combine various interests and quickly become bored once we've figured something out. Sound familiar?
This can lead to a "patchwork of jobs" or a history of starting new projects only to abandon them when the initial excitement fades. When you see someone seemingly "sticking with it" and achieving conventional success, it's natural for that inner critic to show up, reminding you of your own perceived lack of focus or commitment.
However, this envy is often a fleeting emotion because deep down, you know that a single, narrow path wouldn't truly fulfill you in the long run. What you're truly envying isn't the entire job, but rather specific aspects of it – the knowledge, the skills, the experience, or even just the sense of clear direction that specialist seems to possess. You’re not alone in feeling like a "mish-mash of random half-baked talents" despite having expensive degrees or diverse experiences. Many creative generalists I support feel misunderstood, out of place, and never good enough when compared to society's standards of success.
The good news is, you can transform this job envy from a source of self-doubt into a powerful catalyst for your own growth and clarity. Here are three strategies that have worked for me and many of my clients to use job envy to your advantage:
1. Deconstruct the envy: figure out what you really like about this job
Instead of wanting the entire job, break down what specifically attracts you to it. What is it about that "Senior AI Developer" role that sparks your interest? Why would you like to be celebrated at a Cupcake Master? Is it the challenge of solving complex technical problems, the intellectual stimulation of working with cutting-edge technology, or the delight of seeing people truly enjoy your delirious creations? For a creative generalist, the desire is often for the knowledge or skill associated with that role, as well as the recognition of it by others, rather than a long-term commitment to a singular career path (as that, in fact, is our kryptonite).
Action: When you feel a pang of job envy, pause and ask yourself:
What specific skills or knowledge does this person have that I'd love to acquire?
What problems do they solve, or what impact do they make, that resonates with me?
What aspects of their daily work excite me, even if the overall job doesn't?
By doing this, you're not trying to become that person; you're extracting valuable "ingredients" for your own unique "portfolio career". You're combining instead of choosing, my favorite thing to do when I'm helping a client create their dream career.
For example, a multi-passionate creative might be fascinated by how an AI developer builds chatbots and workflow automation and realize they want to learn those specific skills to differentiate themselves and teach others (like I currently am), not necessarily become a full-time developer. This clarifies your focus, helping you combine different interests into a meaningful whole (as I share in my book, you're the glue binding them all together, after all), that aligns with your innate curiosity and desire (or, should I say, need) for learning.
2. Disrupt your limiting beliefs and inherited dreams
Job envy often triggers deeply ingrained limiting beliefs and "inherited dreams," as I like to call dreams that we were given through our upbringing and experiences, about what success should look like. You might be subconsciously trying to fit into a blueprint of success that isn't yours, leading to feelings of not fitting in and frustration. Your inner critic might tell you, "This has been done before, it's not original," or "You're not confident enough to be an entrepreneur". These thoughts stem from a "fixed mindset" that resists change and follows conventional paths.
Action: Use job envy as a "disruptive strategy" to challenge these mental blocks:
When your inner critic shows up, question it. Where do these beliefs come from? Are they truly yours, or are they messages you've internalized from childhood, society, or past experiences?
Apply the "Solomon Effect": view your situation from an outside perspective. Ask yourself, "What would I tell my best friend or my child if they shared the same envy or self-doubt?"
Accept that there’s nothing "wrong" with you; you might have simply been "misdiagnosed" by a world that doesn't fully understand your multi-passionate brain. This shift in mindset can help you see new opportunities in all these jobs you'd like to have (without actually leaving your current job for them) and help you to finally feel like you belong (which you do!).
3. Cultivate grit and consistent action towards your vision
The comparison trap, especially professionally, can lead to inaction, leaving you "stuck" in an overthinking loop where you analyze every option but - drumrolls please, do absolutely nothing. You might find yourself "trying everything" but "not sticking to anything". Overcoming job envy requires transforming that envy into something constructive: concrete action, even if it feels uncomfortable.
Action: Move from contemplation to execution:
Question the "One Thing" Myth: Society often pushes us to choose one thing. But as a creative generalist, you don't have to. Allow yourself to have multiple job interests and weave them together.
Celebrate your unconventional path: Your career or work history might resemble a game of Snakes and Ladders, with twists and turns. This reflects the uniqueness of your brain and passions, not a flaw to be ashamed of! Don't compare yourself to the linear paths of specialists.
Recognize the growing value of generalists in the workplace: Luckily, things are improving, and more and more companies are hiring for skills and talents, actively looking for generalists who can juggle many hats and create bridges between ideas, projects, and people.
Remember, your diverse experiences and wide-ranging interests are your SUPERPOWER. They allow you to see possibilities and connections that others often overlook. The path you have walked, with all its twists and turns, is what makes you uniquely capable of tackling challenges with creativity, innovation, and resilience.
Own your story, lean into your strengths, and trust that your vast t-shaped breadth of knowledge and adaptability are exactly what the world needs. You are not an exception - you are an asset. Always believe in the power of being unapologetically, authentically you. I know I do!
Ready to Turn Your Multi-Passionate Job Envy into an Advantage?
Feeling stuck and unsure of how to channel your many passions into a fulfilling career can be overwhelming but here's the truth – your multi-passionate nature is a gift, not a burden.
If you're tired of just thinking about your goals and want to start working on them, let's connect for a free one-on-one coaching session. Together, we can find your own answers, chunk up your big projects, and help you find the flow and confidence to build the life and career you truly want.
How to Overcome The Fear of Choice: 5 Tips For Those With Too Many Ideas And Interests
When you're a creative generalist (multi-passionate creative) or someone with many passions and interests, the fear of choice can be a real challenge. How do you know what the "right" thing to do is? How do you know which idea to pursue? How do you know which direction to take your career? This article will explore how to overcome the fear of choice and make decisions without feeling paralyzed by all of your options.
Not choosing is also a choice.
The first step is to understand that you don't have to choose forever. It's something I took a long time to learn and probably one of the most freeing things I teach my clients. If you're thinking about starting a new project but are afraid to commit, remember that you can always change your mind later. You really - really - never choose anything forever.
The second step is to understand that you can combine interests and ideas. It's one of the things that makes creative generalists so special. We can see connections between disparate things and bring them together into something new. So if you're feeling pulled in two different directions, try combining them into something new instead of choosing one or the other.
The third step is to choose temporarily. It goes hand-in-hand with the understanding that you can always change your mind later. When making a decision, remember that it doesn't have to be forever. You can always try something new later. It takes the pressure off of making a "perfect" decision and allows you to experiment without fear.
It's about the choice that's right for you at the moment.
When creative generalists are confronted with a choice, many are overwhelmed to the point that they do nothing anymore. But the truth is: that no choice is also a choice. If you don't decide, someone else will do it for you. So instead of being afraid of making the wrong choice, embrace your many passions and use them to your advantage. You never know where they might lead you. Remember, there is no "right" thing to do - there is only what is right for you at this moment. And even that can change tomorrow. So don't be afraid to experiment, combine interests, and change your mind. It's all part of the creative process!
Do you struggle with the fear of choice? Here are five tips to help you overcome indecision and move forward with your life.
Write down everything that interests you and look for the common themes. Are there things you can combine or that build upon each other? For example, if you're interested in fashion and design, you could pursue a career in fashion journalism or start your clothing line.
Look at your interests from different angles. What are the skills you have that are transferable to other contexts or environments? Instead of thinking in terms of knowledge gaps, what are your knowledge strengths? Remember that you don't have to choose just one thing. You can have multiple interests and pursue some of them simultaneously. The key is to be flexible and open-minded and not get too attached to any one idea.
By understanding your values, you can start to narrow down your options. What is most important to you? Is it creative expression? Making a difference in the world? Financial security? Once you know what you value most, you can begin to make choices that align with those values.
Try not to get caught up in the details. It's easy to get bogged down in all of the "what ifs" and "buts" when making a decision. But at the end of the day, there is usually more than one correct answer. So don't overthink it – go with your gut and trust that you will figure out the details along the way.
Sometimes, the best way to make a decision is to weigh your options and see which one feels right. But don't get too caught up in this process – at the end of the day, you must go with your gut feeling. So if that means combining things that look different to everyone else but make sense to you, go for it! Make a list of pros and cons for each option, but don't agonize over it.
Making decisions can be challenging, but it's important to remember that you don't have to choose forever. You can always change your mind later. So embrace your many passions and use them to your advantage. You never know where they might lead you. So go ahead and let your inner creative generalist out! Don't let the fear of choice keep you from pursuing your dreams.
Feeling lost in your career?
Overwhelmed by all your interests and the things you "could be doing"?
You're not alone. A lot of people feel stuck at some point in their careers. That's where private coaching can help. I will help you get unstuck and figure out what you want to do next.
Imagine having a job that combines all your passions into one cohesive career. It's possible, I see it every day in my practice, and I can help make it happen for you. We'll work together to find the best way to use your skills and talents, so you can finally be happy with your work life.
How to Answer the "What Do You Do?" Question as a Creative Generalist
"What do you do?" must be the question that creatives (and generalists) dread more than anything else in the world. It's a difficult question to answer for them because of the many job titles, careers, and responsibilities most multi-passionate creatives can have, not to mention all the additional interests and passions. While there isn't any perfect answer for this common question, it may be helpful to have some strategies when asked.
Most job descriptions are straightforward. You work at a company, and you do X job for them. But what if you're not one of those people? What if you have multiple interests, or your job description is more general? If that sounds like you, then it's time to learn to answer the question, "What do you do?"
In this article, we'll explore three approaches that might help ease the pain of answering the question in the first place. I mean, how do you put a multidimensional human being with a million ideas and interests onto a tiny square business card?
#1 Who's asking, and why?
"So, what do you do?" is an essential question at any networking event, but it can be challenging to summarise it for someone you don't know, especially if you have many interests. Who is asking you? And what are they looking for in your answer? It can help to know what to say.
The person you're talking to might be a potential employer or business partner, so they're just trying to understand your work from that angle. In this case, it's best to keep the response professional and focused on what you do that might fit with what they're looking for. Never mind your other jobs or interests. You don't need to share the fullness of who you are. It might be better not to share too much to avoid confusing those without an extraordinary brain like yours.
Perhaps you're talking to someone who seems interested in more than just your job title. Again, depending on where you are and who you're talking to, you might decide to share a little more about the multitude that you are.
Just remember you're allowed to answer this question the way you feel, and it can vary from occasion to occasion and from person to person.
You don't owe anyone an elevator pitch about who you are and what you do. In fact, by adding variety into how you answer this question, you're remaining true to the multi-passionate creative that you are!
#2 The Instagram bio approach
This one is pretty familiar to creatives and generalists: the teeny tiny Instagram bio. How to summarise what you do in 150 characters or less? Impossible, you think. Well, most of us multi-passionate creatives reach a point - after much agony and turmoil - where we're OK with it being impossible. Why? Because it lessens the pressure of coming up with a bio that covers all our things! There aren't enough characters to do that anyway!
So how to use the Instagram bio approach to answer the "What do you do?" question? Share your favorite snippers of who you are: the things that excite, inspire, or interest you in some way, and then offer to tell them more about it if they're interested! In this scenario, "What do you do?" becomes a conversation starter rather than an elevator pitch.
The key is being clear about what you want to share and what you don't. Professional contacts may not need to know everything about how your imagination works, but if they're interested in hearing more, then that's a perfect time!
This approach is also great when encountering new people because it allows them to get to know you without feeling like they need to know everything.
Blogging is one of my passions, so depending on context and who's asking, I might say, "I blog about creativity." If the person I'm talking to works as an editor or writer, they might be interested in blogging, and we could talk more about it. If not, I can tell them that too - there's no need to be perfect or cover all my bases.
#3 The "But what do you do?" reply
Another way to get out of the "What do you do?" conundrum is by answering that question with a question.
This is a fun and playful way to reply that clarifies any uncertainty about what would be best to share about you. It also has the bonus of possibly leading to an inspiring conversation or a discovery of shared interests!
Here are a few ways to return the question with a question:
I'd love to share more about what I do with you, but I'm too curious. Would you mind telling me a bit more about you first?
Well, I do a few things. Perhaps it would be easier to share if I knew a bit more about you first. Would you mind telling me what you're passionate about?
It's hard to define myself as one thing, but that also means there are always new things for me to explore. Would you mind telling me a bit more about you first?
Finally, I want you to know that whatever the context, how the person you're talking to responds will tell you a lot about whether or not to pursue the relationship further. Both professionally and personally, if the person isn't excited or interested in what you have to say or downright responds negatively, it might be best to move on.
There's no correct answer to this question - share what feels right for you! Remember that you don't owe anyone any explanation about who you are and what you like to do. It doesn't matter if you're a job seeker, a business owner, or an artist.
Are you wondering about what to do next?
Do you have too many interests and don't know how to make them work together? If so, you're not alone. There are so many creative generalists out there with the same issue.
Luckily, it doesn't need to be this way! There are tools for making sense of all these different interests and skills, like my private coaching services, which help you find your "one amazing thing" (or two or three) because you know what: you don't have to choose!