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From 'Idea Overload' to Clear Direction: Your Guide to Taming a Creative Generalist Mind
Do you have a notes app on your laptop or mobile phone filled with bullet lists of brilliant ideas, half-finished projects, and countless "aha!" moments, only to feel paralyzed by the sheer volume of possibilities? You're not alone. Creative generalists, as I like to call them, find themselves in a constant state of idea overload, struggling to translate their vibrant inner worlds into tangible action. As a coach dedicated to helping creatives get unstuck, this is one of the most common challenges I see.
The Overwhelm of Endless Possibilities
It often feels like you're "tinkering in dreamland" rather than building something real. Consider my client Laura, who, despite taking various classes and managing multiple blogs, expressed feeling like she was "looking in the wrong place" and couldn't pinpoint her next steps. Another creative I worked with, let's call him John, described himself as "a very creative person" who generates ideas rapidly but consistently struggles with "following up on them."
The sheer volume of thoughts can be overwhelming, leading to a messy kind of focus that shifts constantly.
For some, this intense creative energy, without a clear outlet, can even result in a feeling of numbness in their creative life. This isn't a sign of laziness; many clients, like Andy, acknowledge they "do lots of work" but remain confused about their direction. It’s simply the difficulty in transforming a rich internal landscape into concrete results, often due to significant mental blocks.
When the Inner Critic Takes the Wheel
A major saboteur in this journey is your inner dialogue - your inner critic. This voice can be relentlessly negative, telling you that you're "not good enough", that your aspirations aren't "real", or that you're destined to "fail". This fear often leads to perfectionism, where the desire to do everything flawlessly can result in analysis paralysis.
Instead of acting, you might get stuck in an endless loop of research or overthinking, procrastinating indefinitely.
My client Sarah's inner critic, for instance, sometimes lures her into believing she doesn't "really have to do the work" because of her talents, only to then call her a "failure". This internal conflict is powerful and often leads creative generalists to feel like their dreams will "never work" after repeatedly getting stuck trying to pursue them.
Discovering Your Unique "Glue" for Clarity
The key to overcoming this multi-passionate overwhelm often lies in identifying your unique "glue," the underlying theme or purpose that connects your seemingly disparate interests. (If you want to know more about it, or find your glue, check out my book Get Unstuck!).
One powerful tool for this is the "Ideal Day" exercise.
By visualizing what your ideal life and work would look and feel like, you start to "see beyond the borders of the lives we’re currently stuck in" and reconnect with your authentic desires. For Paulien, one of my uncommon clients, this exercise provided a crucial direction: "An office job is not for me." That clarity, after trying to land an office job for months, allowed Paulien to finally go for what she really wanted: to be a cowgirl and trail guide around the world.
From Thinking to Doing: The Power of Intentional Action
Once clarity begins to emerge, the next step is crucial: getting into action.
Your creative generalist mind is brilliant at generating ideas, but the real magic happens when you move from planning to execution. Many creatives know what it's like to feel stuck in overthinking and fear.
As I love to remind my clients (and myself!), "the most effective way to do something, well, is... to do it".
This means breaking free from the paralyzing "fear loop" where constant analysis keeps you from moving forward. Even small, consistent steps, like my client Patricia's commitment to dedicating an hour daily to applying for copywriting jobs, can lead to incredible breakthroughs, while helping you face often-unconscious fears stalling your success.
Rewiring Your Brain for Unshakeable Confidence
At the heart of getting unstuck is the understanding that your thoughts shape your reality, and you possess the power to choose what you think, believe, and act upon.
It’s about cultivating a mindset that believes in a positive outcome regardless of the current situation and actively working your way through fear. The goal is to gain clarity and confidence, silence your inner critic, and learn to love yourself for who you really are, and to choose what you truly want in your life, career, or business. This transformative work helped Catherine, who initially came to me looking for a mentor for day-to-day business but ultimately left a toxic partnership to build her own highly successful agency, all by developing the necessary mindset and self-confidence.
Your Path to Getting Unstuck
You don't need to have all the answers right now or know exactly how your "ideal days" will materialize. As I have learned, after working on this for a decade, the journey to getting unstuck involves embracing your unique strengths and allowing opportunities to emerge by creating space for them.
My tailored private coaching support acts as your secret business partner, helping you navigate challenges like building multiple income streams, finding purpose-driven work, or overcoming imposter syndrome.
If you have many interests and passions, a fear of choosing, and a strong aversion to boredom, if you feel overwhelmed by your many brilliant ideas, battle procrastination, or have a hard time silencing your inner critic, you might be a creative generalist.
The path to genuine fulfillment for multi-passionate people like you involves acknowledging your unique strengths, quieting the sabotaging voices within, and taking intentional, consistent action toward the life and career you truly desire.
It’s time to choose your thoughts and behavior actively, understand your unique creative brain, and build habits that will last, so you can move from doing nothing to finally stepping into your creative potential.
Ready to transform your idea overload into a clear, confident path forward?
What if you gave yourself permission to start imperfectly? What if you stopped waiting for the “perfect” moment, the “perfect” idea, or the “perfect” plan and began?
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If You Give Yourself Time to Overthink, You Will. Here’s How to Stop and Get Unstuck
It’s a busy season for me. I’ve been working on my new project, nuumani.com, with the help of some great product developers and coaches while still having the pleasure of helping clients one-on-one. I've also aced two courses at Harvard Extension School, where I'm working my way to a Master's in Management. But let me tell you, this was a ton of work that I did not anticipate! While all of this was happening, and I was celebrating my birthday in Porto and visiting friends in Italy, I felt I was kicking it, and being in action, unhelpful procrastination started making it harder for me to focus on the right things.
I'm sure this is as familiar to you as it is to me. It's a direct result of the pressure, combined with the creative high of new projects: I just get so many additional ideas that I start to focus on the wrong thing. Worse, my focus gets so scattered that I start to overthink everything, so eventually, I end up doing nothing.
The truth is: if you give yourself time to overthink, you will. And it won't be good for your productivity.
The good news is that there are things you can do to stop yourself from going there, even when ideas pop up like fireflies on a hot summer night in the Midwest.
Here are a few tips to help you stay on track and avoid that mind trap:
Recognize when you're overthinking
The first step in overcoming overthinking is to recognize when it's happening. Pay attention to your thoughts and notice any patterns of excessive rumination or indecisiveness that keep you from getting work done.
Create a clear roadmap
One of the main reasons we tend to overthink is that we could be doing so many different things. Especially as creative entrepreneurs, we have a million ideas floating around in our heads. To combat this, create a clear roadmap or plan for your work that you can chop up into clear tasks for your day or week.
Set deadline
I’m such a victim of this. I’m so flexible with deadlines that I have become immune to moving them. To be clear, a little flexibility is good but too much is deadly for your work. Setting deadlines for yourself is another way to avoid overthinking. It creates a sense of urgency and helps you focus on completing tasks instead of juggling between them.
Let go of what isn't a priority
Because I became so stretched in time, I had to make some difficult decisions about how I spend it and say goodbye to some volunteering work I enjoyed and some projects I just don't have the time to work on right now. It can be challenging to let go of things we enjoy or have invested time in, but sometimes, it's necessary to prioritize and stay focused on what matters.
Know what success means to you
It's great to have many opportunities, and we often fear what will happen when we don't say "yes" to what shows up. But what about the risk if you do it? Would that help your business or project, or is it more of a distraction? Don't feel bad if something doesn't align with your goals or definition of success.
Remember, you’re in control of your journey and the decisions you make along the way. I have had to remind myself of this in the past few weeks, and as I'm writing this, I am still digesting a potent conversation I had with one of my business mentors this morning. He pointed out that I was overwhelming myself with overthinking and a lack of oversight or priorities. And you know what? He was right.
Being an entrepreneur is a fantastic journey I wouldn't trade for the world. But what a learning curve it is as well! And a humbling experience. The most important thing is to know what success means to you and prioritize accordingly. Don't let the fear of missing out or the pressure of others push you into overthinking and spreading yourself thin.
Saying "no" to ideas and staying focused is hard, but I know you've got this!
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Stuck in the Overthinking Loop? Here Are 5 Ways to Get Out.
Do you ever feel like you're stuck in an overthinking loop? You know, where all you can do is think about everything – the good, the bad, and the terrifying – and it's preventing you from taking action? This type of thinking often leads to paralysis by analysis.
Overthinking and worrying about the right decision is stressful and causes anxiety. Those are not great feelings. Instead of helping us get unstuck, they keep us where we are for longer. I know because I've had to work through them to get to where I am today - and so have many of my clients. That endless spiral of thoughts that keeps you up at night, where you get so caught up in your thoughts that you can't make a decision, can be disastrous for your career, business, or personal life, especially if you want to make meaningful progress.
The good news is there are ways to get out of the overthinking loop and start taking action again. In this article, I'll share five strategies to help you get out of your head and move forward! But first, let's take a look at why we overthink in the first place.
Why do we overthink?
We all have fears and concerns that can cause us to overthink. We might be worried about making the wrong decision or feeling doubtful about our abilities or worthiness. Fear of failure and fear of rejection – these can all be triggers for overthinking.
Of course, sometimes it's just human nature – when there's an unknown or unpredictable situation, our natural response is to think more about it to prepare ourselves better and feel less anxious. Chronic overthinking is one of the reasons many people get and stay stuck. Because of brain plasticity, forming a habit of overthinking every choice happens without us realizing it. Add a dash of the nervous system to it that feels as if danger lurks every time a decision needs to be made, and you have a recipe for disaster.
Regardless of why we're doing it, too much rumination can keep us from living a full life and reaching our goals. That's why it's essential to find ways out of the overthinking loop as soon as possible!
Five strategies to get out of the overthinking loop
Train yourself to make quicker decisions: The way to get out of overthinking is by training your brain and nervous system to make quicker decisions without giving them much thought. You want to practice this on little things first, like the pants you will wear today or the coffee or sandwich you will order at Starbucks for lunch. Practice making quicker choices daily and gradually work your way up to more complex situations and options.
Let go of perfectionism: We all want to make the right decision and have perfect outcomes, but that type of thinking can send us into a never-ending cycle of overthinking. Accepting imperfection is key to getting out of the loop; doing something is better than nothing! Remind yourself that mistakes happen, growth requires learning from your failures. Take a risk, and remember that you can course-correct if needed.
Understand your fears: When you're in the overthinking loop, it can become hard to see past your fears. To get unstuck from this kind of thinking, try to understand why you're scared or anxious about making a decision. Is there something you need to learn more about? Do you need help from someone else? Once you have identified the source of your fear and anxiety, it's easier to work through it and move forward.
Eliminate the noise: It's easy to get caught up in the endless loop of thoughts when we have too many options to entertain. To start making progress, take a step back and strip away any distractions, opinions, or options that don't matter so you can focus on what's important and make an informed decision. What ideas can you eliminate? What information will help you make the right choice? What opinions can you do without?
Take action: The only way to get out of the overthinking loop for good is by taking action. Even if it feels scary or uncertain at first – do something! Taking small steps will give you momentum that can help propel you forward into more significant decisions and actions with more confidence. Remember, every day is an opportunity to practice making better decisions, trust yourself, and take action! If you're struggling to find your way out of overthinking, I hope these five strategies have given you some ideas for moving forward.
Overthinking can keep us stuck. It can lead to paralysis by analysis, or worse, make us doubt ourselves in the decision-making moment, so we stay stuck forever. But with the right strategies, it can be a different way. Training yourself into faster decisions, letting go of perfectionism, understanding your fears, eliminating noise, and taking action are all excellent ways to help you break out of the overthinking loop and move forward confidently!
So if you feel stuck in your head and keep contemplating the same ideas or options repeatedly, remember: in the end, you cannot think yourself into anything; you have to go out and do it! Good luck!
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How to Overcome The Fear of Choice: 5 Tips For Those With Too Many Ideas And Interests
When you're a creative generalist (multi-passionate creative) or someone with many passions and interests, the fear of choice can be a real challenge. How do you know what the "right" thing to do is? How do you know which idea to pursue? How do you know which direction to take your career? This article will explore how to overcome the fear of choice and make decisions without feeling paralyzed by all of your options.
Not choosing is also a choice.
The first step is to understand that you don't have to choose forever. It's something I took a long time to learn and probably one of the most freeing things I teach my clients. If you're thinking about starting a new project but are afraid to commit, remember that you can always change your mind later. You really - really - never choose anything forever.
The second step is to understand that you can combine interests and ideas. It's one of the things that makes creative generalists so special. We can see connections between disparate things and bring them together into something new. So if you're feeling pulled in two different directions, try combining them into something new instead of choosing one or the other.
The third step is to choose temporarily. It goes hand-in-hand with the understanding that you can always change your mind later. When making a decision, remember that it doesn't have to be forever. You can always try something new later. It takes the pressure off of making a "perfect" decision and allows you to experiment without fear.
It's about the choice that's right for you at the moment.
When creative generalists are confronted with a choice, many are overwhelmed to the point that they do nothing anymore. But the truth is: that no choice is also a choice. If you don't decide, someone else will do it for you. So instead of being afraid of making the wrong choice, embrace your many passions and use them to your advantage. You never know where they might lead you. Remember, there is no "right" thing to do - there is only what is right for you at this moment. And even that can change tomorrow. So don't be afraid to experiment, combine interests, and change your mind. It's all part of the creative process!
Do you struggle with the fear of choice? Here are five tips to help you overcome indecision and move forward with your life.
Write down everything that interests you and look for the common themes. Are there things you can combine or that build upon each other? For example, if you're interested in fashion and design, you could pursue a career in fashion journalism or start your clothing line.
Look at your interests from different angles. What are the skills you have that are transferable to other contexts or environments? Instead of thinking in terms of knowledge gaps, what are your knowledge strengths? Remember that you don't have to choose just one thing. You can have multiple interests and pursue some of them simultaneously. The key is to be flexible and open-minded and not get too attached to any one idea.
By understanding your values, you can start to narrow down your options. What is most important to you? Is it creative expression? Making a difference in the world? Financial security? Once you know what you value most, you can begin to make choices that align with those values.
Try not to get caught up in the details. It's easy to get bogged down in all of the "what ifs" and "buts" when making a decision. But at the end of the day, there is usually more than one correct answer. So don't overthink it – go with your gut and trust that you will figure out the details along the way.
Sometimes, the best way to make a decision is to weigh your options and see which one feels right. But don't get too caught up in this process – at the end of the day, you must go with your gut feeling. So if that means combining things that look different to everyone else but make sense to you, go for it! Make a list of pros and cons for each option, but don't agonize over it.
Making decisions can be challenging, but it's important to remember that you don't have to choose forever. You can always change your mind later. So embrace your many passions and use them to your advantage. You never know where they might lead you. So go ahead and let your inner creative generalist out! Don't let the fear of choice keep you from pursuing your dreams.
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Overwhelmed by all your interests and the things you "could be doing"?
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